Sign Of A Cheating Girlfriend
A good article if you suspect or see a sign of a cheating girlfriend. Suspect Infidelity? Find out For Sure by Sheila Henderson
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We all know that it seems like everything anyone could ever want or need can be found somewhere in cyberspace. So why should the truth be any different? Many people, for different reasons, become suspicious of their spouse or partner. These feelings snowball and can become quite consuming. Why? Because most people have no idea what to do about their doubts. Hiring a private investigator in often too expensive, especially if you have no real facts to start with. Conducting one's own investigations is very risky, as the relationship can be ruined over trust issues if the feelings are wrong and you get caught snooping. Doubters need help.
As with so many things in life, infidelity investigation choices on the web are a blessing and a curse. While it is great to have so many choices, one seldom knows where to begin or what companies are legitimate and which are scams. Should you buy a book about how best to catch a cheater, download a plan of attack, hire someone to rifle through your girlfriend's garbage or follow her, or install a keystroke logger on her laptop? This myriad of choices is confusing enough without adding the hundreds of different sites into the equation.
Fortunately for you we have examined and purchased most of these products and services as well as compared many of the vendors and providers. Our results, listed below, should help you choose the best way to determine whether you are a victim of infidelity or just paranoid. Most experts in the field happen to agree with several studies suggesting that if you think your partner is cheating, you are right.
Semen Detection Kits
Honestly, if you are to the point that you need to check your partner's clothing for semen, your relationship is probably shot and wounded beyond repair. Still, if you just have to know for sure, here's what we can tell you:
Avoid Acid Phosphatase tests, also known as AP tests. The problem with such kits are twofold: The chemicals can deteriorate with time, rendering them useless, and there is a chance of false positives as substances other than semen can contain enough acid to trigger a reaction, in essence "telling" the tester that the substance is semen, when it is not. More modern test kits are now being employed by the major vendors and the six we tested were completely accurate.
Keystroke Loggers
This seems to be one of few products that can be honestly used by those suffering from the entire gamut of suspicion, from the wife who is slightly worried because her husband is spending a little more time on the computer, to the husband who hasn't seen his wife for 3 months because she's constantly locked in the den with her desktop.
When they work (and they usually do), there is little doubt about what is happening. When someone is typing out explicit sexual comments to another person over the web, and the info is caught, there is no point in denying it and it is doubtful that the software made a mistake by capturing twelve pages of erotica. Provided you can install it and later get the info from the program, this is a fairly foolproof way to obtain proof of an affair and to get some specific info about the situation--provided proof of the infidelity is being typed out. The most difficult part of using such technology is the installation and recovery, so it is important to have uninterrupted access to the computer.
Another trick is to install some other programs with no desktop icons (or a number of them, some with and some without icons) over the course of several days or a week to see if the suspected partner will notice and remove them. Some loggers do not show as programs while others have innocuous names.
Keystroke logger users should also be aware, that many AntiSpyware programs will locate and remove logging software.
Spectrasoft is a proven and trusted logger that we found easy to install and pretty user friendly. Actualspy, with it's 007 phraseology and sophomoric instructions wasn't a bet, either.
There are a few free loggers that we were unable to try that may be worth checking out. Some of the name brand services also have a free trial period.
Not so Light Reading
One of the most popular books on the subject of infidelity is Ruth Houston's Is He Cheating on You?: 829 Telltale Signs.
Despite its reliance on absurdly exaggerated numbers (75% of married men cheat) and its rehashing of the same "signs" chapter after chapter, the book does list a lot of things the non-inquisitive would likely fail to notice. And while many others are embarrassingly obvious, logic and reason are rarely the strong suit of people whose minds are constantly filled with the agony of worrying that their spouse is having sex with someone else. A perusal of the book at your local Barnes & Noble would probably serve the average spouse as well as paying the hefty price this work commands.
As for signs one can really use, our own abbreviated list of signs of infidelity is a good place to start, and it's free.
The majority of books on the subject of infidelity discovery are written in an attempt to be the reader's PI, psychologist and life coach; instead of doing one thing well (like focus on the investigative tips), they succeed only at the watered down failure of juggling too much, and usually for too long.
The bottom line is that there are many books written about various aspects of infidelity. The better ones pick an area to focus on and stick with it. Even those that stay with discovery usually nit-pick turning everything from toothpaste squeezing to ice cube numbers into definitive proof of a highly charged sexual affair.
The web is usually a much better place to find signs of cheating--both the real and the exaggerated. Many sites list for free their top ten or twenty signs, and from there anyone can begin thinking like an investigator and start digging.
Reverse Lookup
Stating an obvious truth is important here: anyone cheating is doing so with a partner. That is already so clear that it may seem quite stupid to have written it. But it is far less doltish than rushing out any buying kits, hiring investigators and the like before one knows is anything is going on. Determining that there is someone else should be the first order of business. And while communication isn't necessary if one's partner is engaging in casual sex of the one night stand variety, an actual affair requires the two of them to talk.
As the signs will tell you, communication habits changing are a huge red flag. If someone notices that their spouse suddenly takes calls in private or doesn't answer calls in front of their partner, they would do well to wonder why.
Anyone who is cheating is talking to the other person to make plans, set up a rendezvous, etc. Determining who the other person is, is vital to learning the truth. reverse lookup traces show the name, address and other info that correspond to a phone number (usually a cell number). With this info known, other, more thorough investigations can be conducted, a PI can be hired to surveil their residence or the business where they work. The cheating spouse can be seen and photographed with their "partner in crime," etc.
More obvious are strange numbers of the caller ID or on the call log of a cell phone. Newly programmed numbers in a cell phone are probably listed under some obscure business name that the cheater's partner would never find interesting, like Jim's Golf Supply.
Note: if Jim's Golf Supply shows a local number but is not in the phone book, something is likely up.
After the strange number (or numbers) has been discovered, it needs to be "broken." "Breaking" a number is skip tracing jargon for identifying it by name/address. Listed landline numbers are easy enough, but non-published and cell phone numbers require professional help. Those who contract a PI to break a few numbers had better have a lot of cash under the mattress. But a quick web search will show scores of companies who specialize in such research, or at least claim to.
Beware, these kind of investigations are fraught with lies and half-truths that will cost you money. Firstly, most of the companies advertising number tracing do nothing more than search a database that is ten years old, email you the useless, outdated info and charge your credit card--no research, and certainly no verification. Telltale signs of fraud are promises of "instant results" and access to a "cell phone database." As there is no cell phone database, there can be no results, instant or otherwise, from such a database. Anyone who wants you to enter the number in question and hit a "search" button before waiting while their system "searches" is a liar and a scam artist. The "search" usually ends with the assurance that they have found just what you need and your $25 to $90 will earn you the data.
The only real reverse lookup sites are those that actually investigate the number and return your info after they have completed the custom research required to identify it. This takes time--sometimes ten minutes, sometimes a day or so.
Reverse number tracing is by far the fastest and least expensive way to determine whether your partner is seeing someone behind your back. Although the numbers can be difficult to obtain, if there is an affair, they are certainly talking to the other person. As cell phones provide the most convenient way to communicate, and the illusion of invisibility, many cheaters call the other person during opportune times such as on their way to and from work, on their lunch break and other times when they are alone. Numbers called during these times should be treated as suspicious.
CellularTrace.com
One of the few companies that clearly states that all numbers are investigated manually. All search info returned was accurate, and they even gave us some additional info at no extra cost. The prices for their various searches were $10-25 less than many sites ($45 for a standard cellular reverse) and the information was returned the same afternoon. Comprehensive and rush phone number traces are also available.
<http://www.cellulartrace.com>;
NFR
This company has the decency to give you option of "automated" or "manual" lookup info. The former is clearly useless for cell phone research, while the latter is the only way of truly investigating cellular numbers. Our test numbers were ordered both ways over the course of 2 days and the results were mixed: a landline reverse trace returned info on the previous subscriber, while the cell number lookup info was spot on.
http:NFRinvest.net
LegalDataTracing
Primarily marketed toward attorneys and process servers, these searches, while accurate, are very expensive ($110 to reverse a cell phone number). Professional investigators are supposedly on the staff. They are well-known within the legal community as an honest, reputable company.
investigations.LegalDataTracing.com <http://investigations.LegalDataTracing.com>;
There are a number of ways to investigate potential partner. Those worried about infidelity should weigh all their options before deciding on a course of action. As with anything else, thorough research and price comparisons should be done.
About the Author
Sheila Henderson is a freelance journalist who works and writes in Huntington Beach, CA where she is pursuing a PhD.
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Sign Of A Cheating Girlfriend
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Tuesday, April 17, 2007
Sign of A Cheating Girlfriend
Sign of A Cheating Girlfriend
I have a good article for you today, Is Your Girlfriend Cheating on You? by Mark de Smit, but first,
Has the cheating already happened, or do you suspect your spouse is cheating on you? If you believe you have a cheating spouse you need to look for the sign of a cheating spouse, having an unfaithful spouse can be devastating, surviving infidelity can be a major life changing event. If you have a cheating partner, they will always show you a sign of infidelity.
You need to catch your cheating spouse, do not just confront them, be sure, before you start this extremely hard and difficult time. There are lots of ways to detect an affair.
Michael Thomas
Sign of A Cheating Girlfriend
main article
Is Your Girlfriend Cheating on You?
You have been going out with your girlfriend for quite some time now. Tying the knot with her is a big possibility. However, you have a nagging feeling that something is just not right. Is your girlfriend cheating on you?
Finding out whether or not your girlfriend is unfaithful to you starts from the time you accept the possibility of it happening. There are signs that can lead you to the truth. Most often these are things or changes you will likely notice if you are very observant or simply willing to seek the real story.
Is she more concerned about her weight now when it did not really bother her before? Is your girlfriend spending more time with "friends" lately? Does she seem to splurge more on cosmetics and sexy clothes recently?
A cheating girlfriend can be more charming or loving towards you to cover-up her unfaithfulness. On the other hand, she can also be more easily irritated or angered over small matters that may or may not really be your fault. She may be overly devoted and spend more time with you or have less time with you. She may also have lots of things and stories to share or she may be always tired and have nothing much to say.
Pay close attention to details that could give merit to your suspicions. You can never be certain about her infidelity until she admits it or she is caught in the act. Know what to look out for by reading books or guides on how to catch a cheating partner.
With computers and Internet available in most homes, it is possible for your girlfriend to develop an affair online. If you suspect this is so, there are some things you can do to ferret out the truth. One way for you to catch a cheating girlfriend is by installing a software that monitors Internet activity in your computer.
A computer software like PC Pandora will provide you the ability to record and get snapshots of the different websites visited. It is like a detective that spies on all things done over the Internet using your computer. It can monitor electronic mails, instant messages as well as conversations in chat rooms. It can also determine passwords with its keylogger feature.
If your girlfriend creates a new e-mail address, changes her passwords or simply refuses to share her online activities with you, it does not necessarily mean she is cheating. It could be really just a desire for some space or privacy. However, if she is indeed being unfaithful, you can determine the truth through careful gathering of facts.
With a program or software monitoring your computer's Internet activities your partner cannot hide from you any online affair that she may have. An affair does not have to be a physical one to be considered as cheating. If you value true loyalty and commitment in a relationship, flirting online or offline is simply not acceptable.
Determine the quality of your relationship with your girlfriend before you suspect her of cheating on you. If you have given her your trust, most likely you will not consider some recent changes as grounds for suspicions. If you are suspicious from the very start, it is possible that you will consider every change in attitude or activity as a sign of infidelity.
How to Catch a Cheating Wife? Confirm Your Suspicions
about the author
You have been going out with your girlfriend for quite some time now. Tying the knot with her is a big possibility. However, you have a nagging feeling that something is just not right. Is your girlfriend cheating on you?
An interesting article with good advice from Mark.
Michael
Sign of A Cheating Girlfriend
I have a good article for you today, Is Your Girlfriend Cheating on You? by Mark de Smit, but first,
Has the cheating already happened, or do you suspect your spouse is cheating on you? If you believe you have a cheating spouse you need to look for the sign of a cheating spouse, having an unfaithful spouse can be devastating, surviving infidelity can be a major life changing event. If you have a cheating partner, they will always show you a sign of infidelity.
You need to catch your cheating spouse, do not just confront them, be sure, before you start this extremely hard and difficult time. There are lots of ways to detect an affair.
Michael Thomas
Sign of A Cheating Girlfriend
main article
Is Your Girlfriend Cheating on You?
You have been going out with your girlfriend for quite some time now. Tying the knot with her is a big possibility. However, you have a nagging feeling that something is just not right. Is your girlfriend cheating on you?
Finding out whether or not your girlfriend is unfaithful to you starts from the time you accept the possibility of it happening. There are signs that can lead you to the truth. Most often these are things or changes you will likely notice if you are very observant or simply willing to seek the real story.
Is she more concerned about her weight now when it did not really bother her before? Is your girlfriend spending more time with "friends" lately? Does she seem to splurge more on cosmetics and sexy clothes recently?
A cheating girlfriend can be more charming or loving towards you to cover-up her unfaithfulness. On the other hand, she can also be more easily irritated or angered over small matters that may or may not really be your fault. She may be overly devoted and spend more time with you or have less time with you. She may also have lots of things and stories to share or she may be always tired and have nothing much to say.
Pay close attention to details that could give merit to your suspicions. You can never be certain about her infidelity until she admits it or she is caught in the act. Know what to look out for by reading books or guides on how to catch a cheating partner.
With computers and Internet available in most homes, it is possible for your girlfriend to develop an affair online. If you suspect this is so, there are some things you can do to ferret out the truth. One way for you to catch a cheating girlfriend is by installing a software that monitors Internet activity in your computer.
A computer software like PC Pandora will provide you the ability to record and get snapshots of the different websites visited. It is like a detective that spies on all things done over the Internet using your computer. It can monitor electronic mails, instant messages as well as conversations in chat rooms. It can also determine passwords with its keylogger feature.
If your girlfriend creates a new e-mail address, changes her passwords or simply refuses to share her online activities with you, it does not necessarily mean she is cheating. It could be really just a desire for some space or privacy. However, if she is indeed being unfaithful, you can determine the truth through careful gathering of facts.
With a program or software monitoring your computer's Internet activities your partner cannot hide from you any online affair that she may have. An affair does not have to be a physical one to be considered as cheating. If you value true loyalty and commitment in a relationship, flirting online or offline is simply not acceptable.
Determine the quality of your relationship with your girlfriend before you suspect her of cheating on you. If you have given her your trust, most likely you will not consider some recent changes as grounds for suspicions. If you are suspicious from the very start, it is possible that you will consider every change in attitude or activity as a sign of infidelity.
How to Catch a Cheating Wife? Confirm Your Suspicions
about the author
You have been going out with your girlfriend for quite some time now. Tying the knot with her is a big possibility. However, you have a nagging feeling that something is just not right. Is your girlfriend cheating on you?
An interesting article with good advice from Mark.
Michael
Sign of A Cheating Girlfriend
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Sign Of A Cheating Girlfriend
Sign Of A Cheating Girlfriend
Do you suspect your girlfriend is cheating on you? If you believe you have a cheating girlfriend you need to look for the sign of a cheating spouse, having an unfaithful spouse can be devastating, surviving infidelity can be a major life changing event. If you have a cheating partner, they will always show you a sign of infidelity.
You need to catch your cheating spouse, do not just confront them, be sure, before you start this extremely hard and difficult time. There are lots of ways to detect an affair.
Below is a great article, Four Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend by Mark de Smit
Michael Thomas
Sign Of A Cheating Girlfriend
Main article
Four Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend
Infidelity is like an epidemic that has infected many committed men and women across the country. Almost everybody you know has probably cheated on his or her spouse or partner at least once while in a relationship. Cheating, I believe, is now as common as hay fever in springtime.
Traditionally, unfaithfulness is more commonly committed by men. Nowadays, however, many girlfriends and wives are also having illicit relationships.
If you want to ascertain if your partner is philandering with another man, you must be very observant and sensitive to the things that are happening around you. Here are the telltale signs that will help you determine if your girlfriend is seeing another person:
Sudden preoccupation with appearance
The first sign that your girlfriend is cheating on you is her sudden preoccupation with how she looks or smells. Pay attention to the word sudden because women really love to dress up and beautify themselves once in a while. However, be wary if she completely changed her hairstyle, perfume, nail polish and style of clothing, such as from conservative to more provocative, most especially if you were not the one who suggested the changes.
Reduced intimacy
Women usually equate intimacy with their emotional relation with a person. Thus, if your girlfriend seems to abhor kissing you or even holding your hand in public, chances are she is starting to develop an emotional relation with another man.
Most commonly, women wear sexy clothes and lingerie to make their partner notice them more. However, there is a big probability that your girlfriend is cheating on you if she wears shape fitting dresses and inviting lingerie but doesn't want to make love with you.
Increased overtime and girl's night out
Many women need to work hard to be on top. Thus, it is natural for them to sometimes spend extra time working for a project or a report. However, if she works overtime almost everyday, even on Sundays, you must be alarmed.
The best way to ensure that she is really working in the office even in the wee hours of the night is to drop by her office unexpectedly. You can probably bring her coffee or dinner as an excuse. Thus, if she is indeed working very hard, she will appreciate the gesture that you made by bringing her food. On the other hand, this is also a good way to know if she is really in the office and not somewhere else.
Instead of overtime, some women use their friends as their excuse. If your girlfriend seems to spend most of her time with her friends on vacations and overnight trips, you must be wary. Remember that although women love to regularly hang out with friends, they will still allocate time for their boyfriends.
Increase use of phone and Internet
Watch how your girlfriend reacts to calls and messages. If she tries to conceal some calls and erases her messages, then there might be something fishy going on. If she is really trying hard to conceal conversations or doesn't want you to use her mobile phone, then she maybe hiding something from you.
A poll on Internet Use and Abuse by Greenfield and Rivet showed that 57% of men and women use the Internet to flirt. Thus, you should also monitor your girlfriend's chatting and Internet activities.
If you noticed that your girlfriend is displaying at least two of the four signs that have been mentioned, then it is time for you to gather clues and more proof. Never confront your girlfriend about infidelity unless you are extremely sure about it.
Also, this is probably a good time to reflect on your relationship. Have you been a good boyfriend? Do you still go out of your way to make her happy? Are you sensitive to her needs and emotions? Assess your relationship and your feelings for her. If you want to pursue the relationship to a higher level, then maybe you need to find ways to rekindle the fire in your relationship.
How to Catch a Cheating Wife? Confirm Your Suspicions.
about the author
Infidelity is like an epidemic that has infected many committed men and women across the country. Almost everybody you know has probably cheated on his or her spouse or partner at least once while in a relationship. Cheating, I believe, is now as common as hay fever in springtime.
Do you suspect your girlfriend is cheating on you? If you believe you have a cheating girlfriend you need to look for the sign of a cheating spouse, having an unfaithful spouse can be devastating, surviving infidelity can be a major life changing event. If you have a cheating partner, they will always show you a sign of infidelity.
You need to catch your cheating spouse, do not just confront them, be sure, before you start this extremely hard and difficult time. There are lots of ways to detect an affair.
Below is a great article, Four Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend by Mark de Smit
Michael Thomas
Sign Of A Cheating Girlfriend
Main article
Four Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend
Infidelity is like an epidemic that has infected many committed men and women across the country. Almost everybody you know has probably cheated on his or her spouse or partner at least once while in a relationship. Cheating, I believe, is now as common as hay fever in springtime.
Traditionally, unfaithfulness is more commonly committed by men. Nowadays, however, many girlfriends and wives are also having illicit relationships.
If you want to ascertain if your partner is philandering with another man, you must be very observant and sensitive to the things that are happening around you. Here are the telltale signs that will help you determine if your girlfriend is seeing another person:
Sudden preoccupation with appearance
The first sign that your girlfriend is cheating on you is her sudden preoccupation with how she looks or smells. Pay attention to the word sudden because women really love to dress up and beautify themselves once in a while. However, be wary if she completely changed her hairstyle, perfume, nail polish and style of clothing, such as from conservative to more provocative, most especially if you were not the one who suggested the changes.
Reduced intimacy
Women usually equate intimacy with their emotional relation with a person. Thus, if your girlfriend seems to abhor kissing you or even holding your hand in public, chances are she is starting to develop an emotional relation with another man.
Most commonly, women wear sexy clothes and lingerie to make their partner notice them more. However, there is a big probability that your girlfriend is cheating on you if she wears shape fitting dresses and inviting lingerie but doesn't want to make love with you.
Increased overtime and girl's night out
Many women need to work hard to be on top. Thus, it is natural for them to sometimes spend extra time working for a project or a report. However, if she works overtime almost everyday, even on Sundays, you must be alarmed.
The best way to ensure that she is really working in the office even in the wee hours of the night is to drop by her office unexpectedly. You can probably bring her coffee or dinner as an excuse. Thus, if she is indeed working very hard, she will appreciate the gesture that you made by bringing her food. On the other hand, this is also a good way to know if she is really in the office and not somewhere else.
Instead of overtime, some women use their friends as their excuse. If your girlfriend seems to spend most of her time with her friends on vacations and overnight trips, you must be wary. Remember that although women love to regularly hang out with friends, they will still allocate time for their boyfriends.
Increase use of phone and Internet
Watch how your girlfriend reacts to calls and messages. If she tries to conceal some calls and erases her messages, then there might be something fishy going on. If she is really trying hard to conceal conversations or doesn't want you to use her mobile phone, then she maybe hiding something from you.
A poll on Internet Use and Abuse by Greenfield and Rivet showed that 57% of men and women use the Internet to flirt. Thus, you should also monitor your girlfriend's chatting and Internet activities.
If you noticed that your girlfriend is displaying at least two of the four signs that have been mentioned, then it is time for you to gather clues and more proof. Never confront your girlfriend about infidelity unless you are extremely sure about it.
Also, this is probably a good time to reflect on your relationship. Have you been a good boyfriend? Do you still go out of your way to make her happy? Are you sensitive to her needs and emotions? Assess your relationship and your feelings for her. If you want to pursue the relationship to a higher level, then maybe you need to find ways to rekindle the fire in your relationship.
How to Catch a Cheating Wife? Confirm Your Suspicions.
about the author
Infidelity is like an epidemic that has infected many committed men and women across the country. Almost everybody you know has probably cheated on his or her spouse or partner at least once while in a relationship. Cheating, I believe, is now as common as hay fever in springtime.
Thursday, January 25, 2007
Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend
In this article, the author, Ken Marlborough explains some great signs of infidelity.
Cheating has plagued love lives for generations. Sometimes, one never finds out about an affair a girlfriend has had. However, there are certain signs which might give one a clue as to whether (and exactly to what limit) the girlfriend is cheating.
The first sign of infidelity by a girlfriend in a relationship is her general disinterest in anything that the two enjoyed doing together previously. Sometimes this disinterest is blatant. For example, if a couple watches a movie together, and afterwards she can't remember anything about the movie, then she might be deeply distracted by something. This disinterest then might graduate into a series of unexplained cancellations of plans.
Another sign of infidelity is an inexplicable display of guilt. One way in which guilt manifests itself is avoidance of the person who the guilty party feels is being hurt by her actions. The cheating girlfriend is therefore prone to generally avoiding the injured party - either by not taking calls or by not meeting for that ride or walk the couple used to like so much. Guilt can also cause pre-existing levels of intimacy to plummet.
Of course, there are countless other signs of a new lover: a sudden increase in her monthly expenses and car mileage; a splurge on cosmetics and clothes; a chronically non-reachable cell phone; an increase in overtime at her job without the accompanying increase in her paycheck, and so on. Also, if you notice a sudden increase in the number of her distant cousins, friends, ex-classmates, college friends, and so on, beware: she might be cheating.
Girlfriends having an affair have to be extremely well organized; their schedules are therefore punctiliously maintained. An affair is just an extension of a girl's daily life: she has to find time for the accomplice between family, work, social life, and the injured party. Keeping a big secret is a very tiresome job, and only the coolest, most calculating people can actually keep such a secret. If your girlfriend is not very resourceful and she is keeping a secret, she will probably falter somewhere and maybe blurt it out to you herself.
About the Author
Girlfriends provides detailed information on Girlfriends, Ex Girlfriends, Find A Girlfriend, New Girlfriends and more. Girlfriends is affliated with Gifts For Guys.
Cheating has plagued love lives for generations. Sometimes, one never finds out about an affair a girlfriend has had. However, there are certain signs which might give one a clue as to whether (and exactly to what limit) the girlfriend is cheating.
The first sign of infidelity by a girlfriend in a relationship is her general disinterest in anything that the two enjoyed doing together previously. Sometimes this disinterest is blatant. For example, if a couple watches a movie together, and afterwards she can't remember anything about the movie, then she might be deeply distracted by something. This disinterest then might graduate into a series of unexplained cancellations of plans.
Another sign of infidelity is an inexplicable display of guilt. One way in which guilt manifests itself is avoidance of the person who the guilty party feels is being hurt by her actions. The cheating girlfriend is therefore prone to generally avoiding the injured party - either by not taking calls or by not meeting for that ride or walk the couple used to like so much. Guilt can also cause pre-existing levels of intimacy to plummet.
Of course, there are countless other signs of a new lover: a sudden increase in her monthly expenses and car mileage; a splurge on cosmetics and clothes; a chronically non-reachable cell phone; an increase in overtime at her job without the accompanying increase in her paycheck, and so on. Also, if you notice a sudden increase in the number of her distant cousins, friends, ex-classmates, college friends, and so on, beware: she might be cheating.
Girlfriends having an affair have to be extremely well organized; their schedules are therefore punctiliously maintained. An affair is just an extension of a girl's daily life: she has to find time for the accomplice between family, work, social life, and the injured party. Keeping a big secret is a very tiresome job, and only the coolest, most calculating people can actually keep such a secret. If your girlfriend is not very resourceful and she is keeping a secret, she will probably falter somewhere and maybe blurt it out to you herself.
About the Author
Girlfriends provides detailed information on Girlfriends, Ex Girlfriends, Find A Girlfriend, New Girlfriends and more. Girlfriends is affliated with Gifts For Guys.
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